Here's one I thought would be helpful
www.lightnfit.com, but upon trying to register I was told:
"We're sorry, but an individual whose BMI is 30 or above is not eligible to participate in the Light 'n Fit(TM) Right Fit Plan(TM). We encourage you to use the other health and fitness tools on this site, and consult your doctor/healthcare professional before starting any weight loss program."
Well, so much for trying to find help!!!!! Maybe they have further resources available, but who knows!!!!!