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Originally Posted by Joysieangel
Hi Michele
My hubby has been doing the same thing. I refuse to let him go to the store anymore and if there is something special that he wants he goes to get it himself, but then he brings home so much that it sits around then I see it, and its pretty much gone. He gets his daughter to tell me that she doesnt have to eat "diet food" so he uses her as an excuse to get fast food and bring it home. In the last couple of weeks Ive tried coming up with ways to make everyone happy in regards to food, but I think that he is also scared that I will go to greener pastures if people start noticing me. He doesnt seem to realize that I married him. Not anyone else. I have gottten to the point that I have told him, I AM going to loose weight, I AM going to be happy, I AM going to leave him if he cant be supportive. I know its kind of harsh but Im not going to stay married to someone that cant be happy with me. Because of everyone on these boards I have finally put myself first. Put your foot down and tell them how its going to be. LOL dont take any crap.
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Your husband seems to be way, way insecure if he's sabotaging you so badly. Its great to see though, that you realise that this is all about him and his fears, and nothing about you.
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