Ouch.
I'm so sorry that happened to you and your husband. What kind of person ~ not to mention a GROWN ADULT who sees themself as your friend.. says that to someone?!
Don't feel you and your hubby have to explain why you may be carrying a few extra lbs. That guy is a moron and should consider himself lucky that he gets invited to spend the holidays with your inlaws. People have no idea how comments like that make someone feel. I've always been heavy but I've held my head high and never let it bother me until recently when I know I'm at my heaviest and now I
know people are making comments behind my back.
I don't blame you for wanting to avoid this guy. I would too, he's an ass and not worthy of you and your husbands friendship. Try not to let him get you down. What a pathetic little man.
