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Old 02-08-2006, 07:48 PM
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I have to say that the major reason that this guy and I arent together is not because of my weight. He didnt like it, but he could have delt with it had I not been so lazy, unhappy, and insecure about it. My weight made me extremely shy, and self conscious. I couldnt reach out to him like a normal person would have. And when I was ready, he was fed up with me. I am not giving up, but I am going to back off for now. It is going to be really hard to ignore the new me. (I mean that I will have changed so much inside and out.) However, I am scared, no terrified to meet and go out with anyone else. Yes there is somebody interested (online thing). Help!! The 1st guy is still #1 for me. But the second guy is really sweet. I hope you and your significant other find your way back to each other, if it is ment to be. Life is too short to be spent without your soulmate.
Hope you taped Dr Phil. I was all but crying my eyes out.
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Starting weight: (214 lbs)
Current weight: (188.3 lbs)
Total loss: (25.7 lbs gone)
Left to lose for goal 1: (48.4 lbs)
Left to lose for final goal: (68.3 lbs)
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