[Jules]

You know, I think pregnant people expect someone to say something to them about their coming baby. Otherwise I think they're dissapointed somehow, but if you're not sure it is a baby you really shouldn't say anything.

That must've felt really horrible -I'm sorry it happened. You were really brave not to just burst into tears and hide. I might have. I'm glad your husband wasn't around too if he's not going to defend you when people say crap like that. Keep your chin up Louie, people will be so impressed that you were able to get your weight back down you'll be hearing compliment after compliment before you know it. And besides, it doesn't matter a whit what anyone else thinks as long as you like yourself and are making yourself proud -I learned that the hard way reccently. It's nice, but really doesn't matter at all in the end. You matter though.

Cheers, Jules