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sorry, TBL is still going here so can't quite join in that griping.
But I am sick of people going to me ' so i think you must have some news to tell me?"
Last time was last week tuesday at the melbourne cup function where I had dressed up and a woman who hadn't seen me for about 2 -3 years assumed I was pregnant. It is always said in front of a bunch of people and I have to say no actually, I'm not, I have just put on weight. Everyone casts their eyes down and shuffles and looks embarassed. It is absolutely mortifying for me and I can't stop thinking about it.
For someone who has fertility issues it is hard enough. Yes I have a fat stomach at the moment now fuck off!!! That's what I feel like saying. But I don't. And when you have made an effort to look the best you can it makes you feel even worse. I am just lucky my husband didn't hear - he would have been absolutely beside himself - with me, and blamed me for looking like that in the first place. Yes, it would have made me feel even more miserable.
Why can't people not assume??? I feel bad enough as it is about my weight without someone always bringing it up.
Louie
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