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Old 10-16-2006, 07:38 PM
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Carrie I am really sorry that you are hurting right now. I know everything he said to you was not what you wanted to hear. I think he is a huge asshole, especially for that last remark he made about you still being big. I've told you this before, but I will tell you again. You are better than him and you deserve better than him. It doesn't sound like he has any respect for you at all the way he talks to you. It's his loss, and I mean that. I'm sick of seeing you get hurt by this jerk. Let him go on his way then, forget about him. I know it hurts because he's "the guy" but you have to let him go. Either he's not ready or he just plain doesn't want to be. It doesn't sound like he is making any effort to mend things between the two of you.

Don't let him get the best of you either. He will assume you are depressed and will head for the tub of ice cream, you don't need it! As ****ty as you feel, putting weight back on will feel worse. You don't need him and you don't need anyone else. Just focus on you and get yourself where you want to be.

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